2 Posts found for Author: Helen Fisher

Personality is composed of two fundamentally different types of traits: those of ‘character;’ and those of ‘temperament.’ Your character traits stem from your experiences. Your childhood games; your family’s interests and values; how people in your community express love and hate; what relatives and friends regard as courteous or perilous; how those around you worship; what they sing; when they laugh; how they make a … [ Read more ]

Author: Helen Fisher | Source: The Marginalian (Brain Pickings) | Subject: Psychology | Behavior

Love-besotted men and women show all the basic symptoms of addiction. Foremost, the lover is stiletto-focused on his/her drug of choice, the love object. The lover thinks obsessively about him or her (intrusive thinking), and often compulsively calls, writes, or stays in touch. Paramount in this experience is intense motivation to win one’s sweetheart, not unlike the substance abuser fixated on the drug. Impassioned lovers … [ Read more ]

Author: Helen Fisher | Source: The Marginalian (Brain Pickings) | Subjects: Concepts, Love, Psychology | Behavior